I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Last year he started dealing with depression. He's been seeing a doctor and taking medication.

Some days he's okay — smiling, going out, cooking with me. Like the old him.
Other days are bad. He sleeps all day, doesn't eat, doesn't shower, doesn't want to talk to anyone. Including me.

I love him. I want to be there for him. But I don't know how. If I try to encourage him, I'm afraid it sounds shallow. If I stay quiet, I'm afraid he thinks I don't care.

On his bad days I try not to let him see I'm tired. I keep smiling, keep the place tidy. But when I get back to my own room I cry.

I'm not complaining about him — please don't think that. I just want to know: is anyone else in this same place? How do I keep myself from breaking, while still staying by his side?