I have been dating a Thai girlfriend for 4 months. We go out every week. Every time we eat watch movies or go on trips I pay for everything. My girlfriend has never taken out her wallet. At first it was fine but spending 8000 to 10000 baht per month on dates is getting heavy. Asked my Thai male friend and he said this is normal. In Thailand men paying is expected. If you ask your girlfriend to pay it looks bad. But I feel like we should split sometimes. Or am I overthinking it? Cultural differences are real.