We have been together for 3 years and my partner has been talking about marriage more often. Asking when I will propose. Saying they have waited a long time and are already 30. But I still do not feel ready. Not enough savings. Job not stable. Scared I cannot support a family after marriage. My partner says you do not have to be rich to get married and we can build together. But I think without enough money we will fight about finances every day. I am afraid if I do not propose they will leave. But if I propose when not ready I fear failure. Stuck in the middle and do not know what to do.